One of the big decisions in retirement is about leaving an inheritance to children and loved ones.
Skiing – spending the kids’ inheritance – is popular with many and unavoidable for some who do not have adequate pension provision.
Nevertheless, for many, discussing death and inheritance is taboo – as if talking about it somehow makes the prospect more real instead of something that happens to other people.
For many, considering inheritances is often the first time any real consideration has been given to net worth – the value of an estate after all the bills are paid.
According to research by pensions and insurance giant Aviva, inheritance is something two-thirds of us would prefer not to mention, yet 40% of us are expecting to inherit when family pass on.
The stark truth is some young adults are relying on an inheritance to help them buy a home of their own and to release themselves from the shackles of debt.
Those approaching retirement are probably the wealthiest generation ever, thanks mostly to house price inflation and generous workplace pensions.
These baby-boomers will retire in to a lifestyle of comparative affluence based on the ability to buy property as the number of home owners steadily increased from the 1960s to reach a peak just a few years ago.
The good news is despite this expectation to have money passed on to them, the younger generation has given a green light to their parents and grandparents to spend their inheritances – mainly with equity release from their homes.
For many in retirement their home is their most valuable asset. Skewing UK house prices by age of owners reveals the current average value of a home for someone aged over 55 is £231,300, compared with £160,500 for all age groups.
In reality, a lot of these inheritances may not be what they seem because of the debt some people are taking in to retirement.
Aviva reckons inflation has triggered a debt trap for the generation aged over 55 years old. They each have an average unsecured debt of £17,112, including debt on credit cards (30%), personal loans (14%), overdrafts (10%) and store cards (7%).
Clive Bolton, ‘at retirement’ director at Aviva, said: “Despite the British taboo of discussing inheritance, it seems that three-quarters of Britons are happy for their parents to use the cash in their property to enjoy a better lifestyle in retirement. Retirees should be encouraged to talk openly with their families about their plans and dreams for the future. “Not everyone has the funds in place to support the retirement they once thought possible and we encourage those approaching retirement to look at their full range of assets, including pensions, investments and property.
“Equity release could be a solution for some, as it allows people to turn the potentially dormant capital in their homes into cash without having to move, thereby helping them make the most of their retirement years.”
Not everyone has to wait until the death of a relative or loved one to inherit. The parlous state of the finances of many young adults means as many as one in five have had significant cash gifts of up to£50,000 – and in some cases up to £100,000.
The money goes towards bailing out finances – deposits for houses, paying off debt and helping with bills and living costs during times children do not have a job – according to recent research by Skipton Financial Services, part of the building society.
The opposite conclusions of both sets of research seems to show that parents and grandparents are more reticent about discussing inheritances, but children are not afraid to ask if they need the money.
The Skipton research showed that on average, children were 28 years old and received £34,000 in cash. The findings also confirmed almost two-thirds of under 35s wanted their inheritance before they are 40 – but only 28% had discussed their need with their parents.
For many thinking about passing on an inheritance, one of the more shocking revelations is half of over 50s expect to have to live off the money and assets they had previously earmarked to pass on, while one in five do not intend to pass any cash on and one in three confess paying cash to their children will strain their finances during retirement.
“Whereas in the past they would have been happy and grateful to wait for any inheritance that could come their way, a growing number are expecting and relying upon their inheritance earlier and earlier, with more than half wanting their inheritance by the age of 40,” said Andrew Barker, managing director of Skipton Financial Services.
“It is particularly scary that, whilst almost two-thirds of youngsters are expecting to receive an inheritance, for the vast majority of these it is purely an assumption as only one in four have has a conversation with their parents about the inheritance.”
So where does the money go that is not left as an inheritance?
Of course, there are the skiers having a fun time, while others are eking out their cash to fund their retirement.
But the real truth is many parents think more of their pets than they do their families – and they show this by leaving £26 billion in inheritances to pets.
Another survey, by insurer More Than, revealed 40% leave more money to their pets than their families and more than half keep this cash gift a secret – and one in five will even leave the family home to a pet.
The message to families is lift that velvet curtain hiding the taboo of inheritance and death – because if you don’t, you might just find all the money you were expecting has gone to the dogs – literally.